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So the other day, me, the boyfriend and his family were chilling around the living room and this happened.
Josh: So where do you guys wanna go for holiday during the Chinese New Year break? Kelantan? Terrenganu? Penang? Wheeere?
Everyone: *thinks*
Josh: Kelantan okay wert. Can eat Malay food! I want.
Me: Hmmmm dunno.
Josh: Okay then. *looks at me* Just so you know, if we go to Kelantan, you can't wear shorts (I love to wear shorts, fyi). So have to always wear long pants ya.
Me: *looks back at him* nooooooooo, don't lie. I've been to Kelantan ok! And I wore shorts.
Josh: How many years ago was that???!
Me: Errrrrr 3 years ago? Haha
Josh: Exactly. New rules la. And we can't hold hands unless we're married you know.
Me: *gives him stun face* Okay. Then we better start practicing now. Or else we won't get used to it.
P/s we weren't trying to insult anyone here. So don't be offended :)
Ok. So after reading Timothy Tiah's blog about all sorts of things he say and do with his wife, Audrey, well I find it really cute and hilarious. Like seriously, there were times when I read those post and couldn't stop laughing. And then, I showed them to the boyfriend through NuffnangX and he was laughing as well especially on em fart jokes. Just so you know, he don't usually laugh or get the jokes that I do. So for him to laugh at the things I read, well that's awesome haha. So we both came in a conclusion to follow them and start writing down those moments we had laughing together, saying stupid things together and annoying each other as well.
Before we start off, our title is called "Josh &Evon" well........ cause that's our name. We usually have a nick name for each other. We call each other Bi and Bu but I guess it's a little mushy to write it down constantly in a blog haha. Just so you know, he wanted to title this as "Ham sap n more ham sap" so you better thank me on this one. And no, I am not the more ham sap one. Anyways, so "Josh & Evon" it shall be and here's a few pictures of us :)
Both of us on our trip to Malacca earlier this year.
The boyfriend with our luggages during our trip to Korea. He's a real joker haha
This is me, of course. Just last week, after I had my hair cut. Nice not? Let me put one nice picture of myself la hahahaha. K la, show you one stupid picture of me since I'm so nice.
Yes, I can have stupid moments too especially when I'm with him.
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So Josh was looking for a new phone recently. He kind of broke his current phone's screen cause he's a big man lol. Ok, he dropped it off the tar road flat on it's face when we were heading for a drink at the mamak stall. Most expensive supper, I suppose. So we were doing our research on phones and found this amazing phone that's water and dust proof. It could even be run over by a car and still work. We thought it was very suitable for him cause he's a big and rough man. So this conversation happened in the car while we were discussing randomly. And just so you know, Josh is not a very tech-savvy person haha.
Me: Omg, I really don't understand how people know where to put what and what to put where to make these phones work. Like how you know if you put this thing here and the screen would look like this???
Josh: Well, I don't know.
Me: Hmmmmmm *stares at my phone and still be amazed by it*
Josh: Do you know where all these started from? *sounding all pro*
Me: Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I guess Bill Gates started it off with all these tech la. He so geng........ Wait, I think he invented Microsoft only la right errrrrr *laughs*
Josh: *laughs* Wth. You know who anot?
Me: Dunno dunno *thinks even harder but gave up*
Josh: *pauses* Well, the man who started the fire.
And I tell you if there were a drummer and his drum set around, I will make him play this.
Me: WTHHHHHHHHH HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
Ok, so Josh and I tend to be very lame when we're together. Ba-Dum-Tsssssh, bye :)
Relationships: When two are connected with emotions and feelings among one another.
What is it about relationships that people are urging to get into? The feeling to love and be loved makes me reminisce of the moments back in the days when we called it love. Young and fresh searching out for love.
And then I see friends updating statuses of betraying or being betrayed from the one they loved because of so many reasons whether logical or not. So what happened to those happy times they had together? Those memories that they've spent together. Those loving moments dwelling into each other's eyes. Then I ask myself again, what would the relationship status be if you're away from me for a long period of time? Well, long distance. There wouldn't be any of the 5 love languages that we all know of. Words of affirmation. Quality time. Gifts. Acts of service. Physical touch. It might even slowly fade away, making us forget "those moments" we had together. So what is there left in the relationship?
Commitment. Trust. And love.
I always believed that commitment is more important than love but does not mean that love did not exist in the first place. Because without commitment, love is hollow and means little more than an attraction. Besides God's love for us. Because we're only humans, and honestly we aren't able to love a person 24 hours a day, 7 days a week but we can choose to be committed to a person always. Commitment helps carry the relationship's ups and downs even after the excitement may have worn down. It helps us to consider the other half's needs before our very own.
Trust on the other hand seems to be something taken too lightly. What is a relationship without trust? Some said that it's nothing and I am one of them. Because when trust is broken, it takes a lifetime to regain and is never as strong. Forgiving may be easy, but trusting them again is a totally different story. Doubts. Suspicion. Anxious. Jealousy. Something everyone's very familiar with. Something everyone's not very keen of meeting. People say these comes when there is lack of trust in a relationship. It is built, earned and maintained. Trust among one another affects the entire relationship, it either builds or breaks.
Love is reminded by God to me through His word. For,
"Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,
it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
To forget the past that once hurt us. He did not say that there will not be any record of wrongs when there is love because again, we are only humans. And I admit that I have had a record of wrongs myself.
